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Goodbyes are always difficult.
Recently I had to say goodbye to a good old friend of mine. It hit me finally that this friendship would never be the same and that I’ve lost a friend whom I once thought would be there by me for the longest time.
I was disappointed, angry but most of all sad.
Disappointed as I wasn’t told.
Angry that I had to find out from someone else.
Sad that I had to finally admit and say goodbye.
Probably I was too naïve believing that close friends would never drift apart. And that the special connection and chemistry would always be there. Guess I was wrong.
For me, a close friend would always be a close friend, no matter how little we kept in touch. But I guess it isn’t the same for some. Like the saying, ‘Out of sight, out of mind’.
It made me wonder. What happened to the hours of chatting, laughing and crying? Was it all just a passing moment? And I actually thought I had finally got another friend whom I could be myself. Breaking up invisible walls and opening up.
Well…. Goodbye my friend… Only memories remain now.
MoMo*Chin
Goodbyes are always difficult.
Recently I had to say goodbye to a good old friend of mine. It hit me finally that this friendship would never be the same and that I’ve lost a friend whom I once thought would be there by me for the longest time.
I was disappointed, angry but most of all sad.
Disappointed as I wasn’t told.
Angry that I had to find out from someone else.
Sad that I had to finally admit and say goodbye.
Probably I was too naïve believing that close friends would never drift apart. And that the special connection and chemistry would always be there. Guess I was wrong.
For me, a close friend would always be a close friend, no matter how little we kept in touch. But I guess it isn’t the same for some. Like the saying, ‘Out of sight, out of mind’.
It made me wonder. What happened to the hours of chatting, laughing and crying? Was it all just a passing moment? And I actually thought I had finally got another friend whom I could be myself. Breaking up invisible walls and opening up.
Well…. Goodbye my friend… Only memories remain now.
MoMo*Chin
4 comments:
wah seh, who is this friend wor?
Nevermind, you still have me. I don't want to speak for anyone else but you know who we are who will still be here for you.
I don't believe in the saying 'out of sight, out of mind' for old friends. I believe that friendship should last the test of time. Especially friendships forged from childhood.
:) Love you, babe.
hehe... am glad that i have friends like u guyslah. Just thought i had another addition to the 'special' group mah... but i was so so wrong.
niways... i'm ok... dun worry...
sure? Do you want a Starbucks moment?
:P
*darn.... I'm supposed to remind myself not to spend so much money!! hehehehe...
starbucks sounds great... see u tonight then...
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